Pretty Bows

I have always enjoyed shooting. It may not be the most ladylike pastime, especially when using a 45 caliber handgun, but there is something immensely satisfying about planting a projectile right slap bang in the middle of a target.

One particular branch of shooting that has always held a particular fascination is archery.  There is something very noble about the Bow and Arrow. Dispensing with telescopic sights and high powered ammunition is like stepping back in time. The mental and physical challenges of consistently accurate archery are immense, and therefore extremely rewarding.

Using a simple wooden bow with no sights, and no high tech release trigger raises the stakes even higher. It is not for nothing that Archery is known as the  “Art of Repetition”

I was until just before my Transition an active member of a local Archery club. Sunday mornings were filled with pleasant walks, good company and of course some very satisfying action with Bows and Arrows.

This lady likes to shoot Bows as well as wear them 🙂

However, I backed away from the Club as I had no desire to share the details of my transition with the members. It is not necessarily a terribly “Macho ” environment, there were a number of female archers who shot regularly and competitively, but it didn’t feel like the kind of group that would respond well to something so personal and challenging.

Winding forwards to a couple of weeks ago, whilst Jane and I were out shopping for a new printer, and we bumped into the Range Safety Officer. He expressed some delight at catching up. “Why don’t we see you on Sunday anymore ?” he asked. I explained about my transition, the changes I was going through and the challenges we had been facing. He listened intently and then said with a slight grin “So why don’t we see you on a Sunday anymore ?”

An essential component of my recovery from the deep depression is exercise and mental stimulation. Archery is a sport that rewards concentration and focus, so right now, it is just what I need.

Today I emailed the club President and put her in the picture, her reply was swift and remarkably positive. It seems like I don’t need to miss my Archery fix after all….

I think its time to go shopping for some Green Tights and a Tunic.

5 responses to “Pretty Bows”

  1. Kimberly avatar
    Kimberly

    I saw some research recently that showed that women like you and me are most resilient when we have good connections to mainstream society. Go for it.

  2. lizkimber avatar
    lizkimber

    See, yet more people who just like you, who, like me met Tim and now have Suzanne, and are perfectly happy and they want to see you again. I never did archery, always wanted a go. Did shooting. Was reasonably good at it for a kack handed fool as when i was younger i couldnt wink so, using sights was a challenge.. So i ended up shooting left handed with right handed guns..

    Cant wait to see photos of you doing archery.

  3. Christine avatar
    Christine

    Love this story! We always tend to think the worst when the best is right there in front of us. I look forward to reading your post following Sunday’s activities

  4. Helen avatar
    Helen

    Don’t forget the feather for your cap!
    On a daily basis Suzanne you are discovering that people are basically decent. Enjoy shopping for the outfit and then enjoy being back with the group. One more step forward.

  5. Jen avatar
    Jen

    Love it! One day soon I hope you’ll stop being so surprised by these types of responses 🙂

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